The Truth About Your Value (That No One Told You)
The Truth About Your Value (That No One Told You)
Most people are waiting.
Waiting for success, recognition, or approval to prove they matter. Waiting for their hard work,
struggles, and sacrifices to pay off—so they can finally feel valuable
But here’s the truth:
Your value isn’t something that shows up after the struggle. It has existed since the moment
you took your first breath.
It’s not measured by how much you do or how many people validate you. It’s woven into your being.
You can see it in the way people smile when you’re around.
In how the energy of a room shifts when you walk in.
In the fact that you wake up with a desire—sometimes a quiet whisper, sometimes a roaring fire—to make the world a better place.
And even on the days when you can’t get out of bed?
Your value remains unchanged.
Debunking the Productivity Myth
Society glorifies being busy, achieving more, and proving worth through constant output. But have you ever considered that productivity has nothing to do with value?
If you stopped producing, if you took a pause, if you did nothing for a while—would you suddenly
lose your worth?
No.
Yet, we’ve been conditioned to believe otherwise.
Your value isn’t tied to how much you do. It’s tied to who you are.
The Fastest Way to Lose Your Value (Hint: It’s Self-Inflicted)
No one can take away your value. But you can chip away at it yourself.
- Every time you compare yourself to someone else.
- Every time you judge yourself for not being “enough.”
- Every time you try to fit into a version of success that was never yours to begin with.
Your value isn’t found in being someone else. It’s found in being fully you.
How to Strengthen the Muscle of Knowing Your Worth
Like any muscle, knowing your worth requires practice.
Start with ten minutes a day.
- Notice when the thought creeps in—I’m not enough.
- Stop.
- Pause.
- Take a deep breath.
- Remind yourself: I am enough. I don’t have to prove it. I just have to know it
Over time, this knowing becomes unshakable.
Because the truth is:
Your value starts with you. It starts within you.
And it never—ever—comes from outside of you.
Are You Ready to Own Your Value?
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You are enough. And it’s time you knew it.
Prerna Wadhwa